HER review
A mobile dating and community app with identity-rich profiles, groups and local events.
Reviewed by iTechGuides Editors · Editorial team · Updated Sep 2026
HER is a dating and community app for LGBTQIA+ people, including queer women, lesbians, bisexual people, transgender people and non-binary people. It brings dating profiles, matching and chat together with groups, discussions and ways to connect around local events. Profiles can include pronouns, gender identity, sexual orientation and Pride Pins, making HER a fit for people who want identity fields to be part of how they present themselves. It is available on iOS and Android, not desktop.
HER’s scope extends beyond one-to-one matching: members can browse nearby people, join community groups and view events, with the option to connect around local activities. Profile verification and filters for verified profiles add another way to navigate matches. That mix may suit someone looking for both dating and community connections; someone seeking a dating-only service or desktop access should consider alternatives.
Core features are free, while optional paid subscriptions add advanced profile filters, incognito mode and an ad-free experience. According to the US App Store listing, Premium starts at $14.99 USD per month; subscription prices vary by region and subscription option. That makes the free tier a way to use the core matching and community features, while the paid tier is chiefly for additional browsing controls and fewer ads. Choose HER if its identity-rich profiles and community features match what you want; weigh the subscription against the value of those added controls if you mainly want basic matching and chat.
HER pros and cons
- Where it wins
- Profiles include pronouns, gender identity, sexual orientation and Pride Pins
- Combines matching and chat with community groups and discussions
- Offers local events, profile verification and verified-profile filters
- Where it doesn't
- Available on mobile only, for iOS and Android
- Advanced filters, incognito mode and ad-free use require a paid subscription
- Premium pricing varies by region and subscription option
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